The Burial Service, or Funeral

For Christians, the parting of the soul from the body is a painful but necessary stage in our progress from this life to eternal life with God. The Church honors the mortal remains of each of its members, burying them in the earth to await the second coming of Christ, and prays that God may forgive their sins, have mercy on them, and welcome them into His kingdom.

Our principal service for the dead is the burial service, or funeral. In this service, we take the body of a member of the Christian community who has died and lay it honorably to rest, while praying for the soul that has been separated from it.

The burial service in our Slavonic liturgical books

In the Euchologion or Trebnyk, the liturgical book which contains our funeral services along with the Holy Mysteries and other occasional services, the funeral is a single, extended service which accompanies the body and soul of the deceased from the home (at one time, the actual home of the deceased; today, this is usually a funeral home) to the gravesite.

A cursory examination shows that the funeral service is based on Matins (the Church's morning prayer), and in particular has striking similarities to the service of Matins on Great and Holy Saturday:

Matins for Holy Saturday, or Jerusalem Matins The Burial Service (Funeral)
  Entrance into the Church with body: Gospel, “Holy God”
Blessing by priest:
"Glory to the holy, consubstantial, life-giving and undivided Trinity"
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Psalm 3 Psalm 90
Great Litany (Litany of Peace) Great Litany for the Deceased
"The Lord is God", with verses
Troparia for Holy Saturday
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8
First reading from Psalm 118 , with refrains
Small Litany

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Hymns (Evlogitaria) of the Resurrection, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 2:
“Joseph went to Pilate to beg for your body”

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant”

Psalm 50 Psalm 50

THE CANON FOR THE BURIAL OF CHRIST (in Tone 6)
Odes 1 and 3
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 2:
“The soldiers guarding your tomb, O Savior”

Odes 4, 5, and 6
Small litany
Kontakion and Ikos of Holy Saturday

Odes 7, 8, and 9
Small Litany for the Deceased

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6)
Odes 1 and 3
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 6:
“All is vanity, indeed”

Odes 4, 5, and 6
Small litany
Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Odes 7, 8, and 9
Small Litany for the Deceased

"Holy is the Lord, our God", with verses
Psalms of Praise (148-150) with stichera
Great Doxology
Procession with burial shroud of Christ
Troparion of the Prophecy and Old Testament reading
Hymns of St. John Damascene
Beatitudes


Prokeimenon
Apostolic Reading
Alleluia
Gospel

Prokeimenon
Apostolic Reading
Alleluia
Gospel
Litany of Supplication Litany for the Deceased
  Hymns of Farewell
  Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Dismissal Prayer of Absolution
Dismissal
Veneration of the tomb and shroud of Christ Gospel reading
Procession with body to grave

A few notes on these two services:

After this point the services diverge: on Holy Saturday, we re-enact Christ's burial, while at the funeral we sing hymns describing the tragedy of death, then sing Christ's plan of salvation (the Beatitudes), and end with a real burial procession.

The burial service and the memorial service

Eventually, the night-time vigil before the funeral, and the annual services at which the dead are remembered in prayer, came to borrow the structure of the burial service, leaving out only the parts that involve having a body present to be prayed over. The result is the memorial service, or Parastas (standing service):

The Burial Service (Funeral) The Memorial Service (Parastas)
Entrance into the Church with body: Gospel, “Holy God”  
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Psalm 90 Psalm 90
Great Litany for the Deceased Great Litany for the Deceased
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant”

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant”

Psalm 50 Psalm 50

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6)
Odes 1 and 3
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 6:
“All is vanity, indeed”

Odes 4, 5, and 6
Small litany
Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Odes 7, 8, and 9
Small Litany for the Deceased

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6) (or another canon in Tone 8)
Odes 1 and 3
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 6:
“All is vanity, indeed”

Odes 4, 5, and 6
Small litany
Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Odes 7, 8, and 9
Small Litany for the Deceased

Hymns of St. John Damascene
Beatitudes, with troparia
"It is truly proper to glorify you, O Theotokos"
Prokeimenon
Apostolic Reading
Alleluia
Gospel
 
Litany for the Deceased  
Hymns of Farewell  
Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Prayer of Absolution
Dismissal
Dismissal
Gospel reading
Procession with body to grave
 

Notice the last two entries on the right: if you add an opening blessing, this structure (Trisagion or beginning prayers, troparia for the departed, litany for the departed, prayer for the dead, dismissal) is exactly what we call a Panachida. So the memorial service or Parastas is really the first part of the funeral service, plus a Panachida, celebrated for one or more persons who have died.

To these two basic services, the Trebnyk adds:

The burial service as it evolved over time

The memorial or Parastas was celebrated on special days of commemoration of all the dead, but it was also held as a "wake" or vigil service in the home, on the night before the funeral. (Such wakes were common in American culture, including among Roman Catholics, and the Parastas was admirably suited to fill this role. So people began to think of the Parastas as "what we have on the night before the funeral," reversing the order:

The Memorial Service (Parastas) The Burial Service (Funeral)

and when an official funeral book was promulgated in 1972 (later revised in 1984; PDF), it either eliminated many of the common elements of the Parastas and the Funeral, or marked them as "not for parochial usage" (i.e., not used in parishes). Here is the result:

The Memorial Service (Parastas) The Burial Service (Funeral)
  Entrance into the Church with body: Gospel, “Holy God”
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Psalm 90 Psalm 90
Great Litany for the Deceased Great Litany for the Deceased
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant”

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant

Psalm 50 Psalm 50

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6) (or another canon in Tone 8)
Odes 1 and 3
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 6:
“All is vanity, indeed”


Odes 4, 5, and 6
Small litany

Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Odes 7, 8, and 9 (now optional)
Small Litany for the Deceased

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6)
Odes 1 and 3
Small litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 6:
“All is vanity, indeed”

Odes 4, 5, and 6
Small litany
Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Odes 7, 8, and 9
Small Litany for the Deceased

"It is truly proper to glorify you, O Theotokos" Hymns of St. John Damascene (5 dropped out of 8)
Beatitudes
  Prokeimenon
Apostolic Reading
Alleluia
Gospel
  Litany for the Deceased
  DIVINE LITURGY ADDED HERE
  Hymns of Farewell
Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Dismissal Prayer of Absolution
Dismissal
  Gospel reading
Procession with body to grave

The section in gray is entirely missing from the funeral book; struck-through sections mark parts of the service which are "not prescribed for parochial use." Also notice that an optional Divine Liturgy is added to the funeral service, usually replacing the Divine Liturgy that was previously held on the 3rd, 9th or 40th day.

Some pastors tried to reintroduce parts of the service (made more difficult because some had no music); others abbreviated the services still further, leaving cantors with quite a task in trying to navigate through the book, remember which way the funeral is being celebrated today, and how to sing the (somewhat difficult) music which was often not provided with notation, but had to be sung by applying a known melody to different texts on the fly.

Over time, the number of cantors who are thoroughly familiar with the whole funeral service has dropped dramatically, and our services have suffered as a result.

Proposed changes to the funeral

In 2012 and 2013, the Inter-Eparchial Liturgical Commission conducted a thorough review of the funeral and memorial services, retranslated some places where the English texts had significant problems, and made recommendations to the Council of Hierarchs (our bishops) as to what might be done. Here is what they did:

Here is the result:

The Memorial Service (Parastas) The Burial Service (Funeral)
  Entrance into the Church with body: Gospel, “Holy God”
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Blessing by priest:
“Blessed is our God”
Psalm 90 Psalm 90
Great Litany for the Deceased Great Litany for the Deceased
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8
"Alleluia", with verses
Troparia for the Departed, in Tone 8

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

First reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Second reading from Psalm 118, with refrains
Small Litany

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant”

Hymns (Evlogitaria) for the Departed, with refrain:
"Blessed are you, O God; teach me your commandments."
Small Litany
Sessional Hymns in Tone 5:
“O Savior, give rest to your servant”

Psalm 50 Psalm 50

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6) (or another canon in Tone 8)
Ode 1

Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Ode 8 (optional)

Ode 9

THE CANON FOR THE DEPARTED (in Tone 6) (or another canon in Tone 8)
Ode 1

Kontakion and Ikos for the Departed

Ode 8 (optional)

Ode 9

"It is truly proper to glorify you, O Theotokos" Hymns of St. John Damascene (sing at least 3)
Beatitudes
  Prokeimenon
Apostolic Reading
Alleluia
Gospel
  Litany for the Deceased
  DIVINE LITURGY ADDED HERE
  Hymns of Farewell
Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Trisagion prayers, troparia,
litany, and prayer
Dismissal Prayer of Absolution
Dismissal
  Gospel reading
Procession with body to grave

The resulting services are slightly longer, definitely more complete - and SHOULD involve much less decision-making to determine how the services are sung.

In 2014, the Inter-Eparchial Liturgical Commission worked on music for these services; some of the music settings had already been completed and released, such as the Hymns of Saint John Damascene (which are sung as part of the Liturgy of the Presanctified Gifts on certain Fridays in the Great Fast.)

In 2015, a preliminary version of the Parastas (memorial service) was approved for use at the annual pilgrimage to Mount Saint Macrina in Uniontown, PA, in honor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help. (A Parastas is held at this pilgrimage each year for all those buried at the cemetery on the Mount.) You can see this book here.

Singing the Funeral Service

The MCI website provides three articles on singing the funeral service, using BOTH the current funeral book and early versions of the proposed funeral book:

These articles are part of the MCI Online class, Services for the Departed, which is recommended to all cantors. Like baptisms and weddings, our services for the departed are important, and each parish should have one or more cantors who can lead the singing at them with grace and confidence.

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